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May 31, 2013         10:09PM

A YOUNG tourist says she was tortured for seven weeks by a couple who kept her prisoner in a hotel room and degraded her.

Alfio Anthony Granata, 44, and Jennifer Peaston, 32, are accused of holding the 21-year-old captive in a long-term rental apartment at the Bell City complex in Preston.

Mr Granata faced court this week, and was charged with more than 100 offences, including rape and assault with a knife, abduction and theft.

He was refused bail and will return to Melbourne Magistrates’ Court on July 12.

Ms Peaston faces more than 100 charges.

The tourist was reportedly “systematically brutalised” throughout her ordeal, which began on November 15 and ended on Christmas Day.

It’s alleged the duo kidnapped the woman with the intention of raping her and then repeatedly sexually assaulted her, bashed her with a stick and kicked her as she was held down by a third person.

Her ordeal reportedly ended only when she managed to break free.

The woman and the two accused were known to each other, it is understood.

Police arrested and interviewed the pair on Boxing Day and released them pending further investigation.

They were arrested and charged on February 8 and have been on remand since.

Little is known about Mr Granata, who sources have said is a sports fanatic born in Italy.

One family friend said he was shocked to hear allegations that Mr Granata was involved. The man, who asked to remain anonymous, described Mr Granata as a nice family man.

The apartment complex where the crimes are said to have occurred is visited by hundreds of people every day.

The sprawling complex – complete with a pool, a gym, and bars and cafes – has a notorious past. In 2011, two women were caught filming a pornographic movie on a balcony in broad daylight.

Neighbours complained the film was being made in full view of residents, children and road users.

One neighbour said she was constantly contacting centre management complaining of offensive behaviour by some clientele.

Complaints included a stripper entertaining men on a balcony, fireworks being set off from hotel rooms, guests yelling abuse at her children, and beer bottles and litter being thrown from balconies.

Another complained that a microwave and used condoms were thrown into backyards by some hotel patrons.

The complex includes hundreds of rooms and long-term rental apartments.

The long-term accommodation section features a large outdoor pool, a 24-hour gym and boasts of first-class facilities at “extremely affordable rates”.

The rooms where the young tourist said she was held captive would have contained an LCD TV, bar fridge, microwave, internet access, airconditioning/heating, telephone and private en suite with shower and toilet.

Room rates are advertised at as little as $280 a week for a six to 12-month stay, or up to $320 a week for a five-week stay.

The area was loud and bustling during the day as hundreds of guests and residents went about their day, unaware of the horrors police say occurred inside.

Rydges Bell City management refused to comment.

from:  http://www.news.com.au/national-news/pair-charged-after-woman-allegedly-abducted-and-assaulted-in-hotel-for-weeks/story-fncynjr2-1226654276594#ixzz2UukFhWzb

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using the number/letter grid:

 
1      2      3       4       5       6      7      8      9
A      B     C       D       E       F      G      H      I
J      K      L      M      N       O      P      Q      R
S      T      U      V      W      X      Y      Z

Where:

A = 1              J = 1              S = 1

B = 2              K = 2             T = 2

C = 3              L = 3             U = 3

D = 4              M = 4            V = 4

E = 5              N = 5            W = 5

F = 6              O = 6             X = 6

G = 7              P = 7             Y = 7

H = 8              Q = 8             Z = 8

I = 9               R = 9

 

 

Alfio Granata

13696 7915121           51

 

his path of destiny = 51 = Brutal.  Anything he says or does can and will be used against him in a court of law.

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May 29, 2013

Babies don’t belong in sewage pipes. That much the online community in China agrees upon. On May 25, an unwed 22-year-old woman in China’s eastern Zhejiang province walked into a bathroom and delivered a baby whose existence she had hidden from the world. The woman had been hunched over a squat toilet and her newborn boy slipped into the sewage pipe below, according to local journalist Dong Qi. Although the new mother used a mop to try to dislodge the baby, he was wedged into a channel 4 in. (10 cm) wide, says Dong, whose information comes from the local police chief in Pujiang county. Panicked, she tried to cover up what happened, splashing water to wash away the blood. She then informed someone in the building that something was wrong with the toilet.

Soon, firefighters were dispatched to rescue the child from the waste pipe. But the 6.2-lb. (2.8 kg) newborn was squeezed in so tightly that they were unable to extract him. The rescue workers were forced to saw off the section of the pipe with him in it and transport it to a nearby hospital. Baby 59, as he is now known after the number of his incubator, is in stable condition, a tiny presence with a full head of hair and a scraped knee and other bruises from his postbirth ordeal.

When footage of Baby 59’s rescue was released earlier this week in China, in absence of information about his mother, the reaction online was swift and harsh. “What kind of beasts can do such a thing?” posted one user on Sina Weibo, a domestic Twitter-like social-media service, referring to the child’s parents. In the court of public opinion, the young mother, as well as the father who reportedly refused to acknowledge her pregnancy, were quickly tried and found guilty. Wrote another Weibo user: “His parents should be put into prison and never be allowed to touch him again.”

The Internet serves as a crowd-sourcing tool for vigilante justice in China — where the normal judicial system cannot be counted on for dispensing fair results — and it does such an effective job that it’s often nicknamed the Human Flesh Search Engine. Although sensitive content is often censored, the online sphere is still the most open forum available to Chinese citizens, who rarely trust state-run media to deliver news that contradicts the ruling Chinese Communist Party’s version of truth. From discrediting corrupt local cadres and shaming jaywalkers to exposing two-timing spouses and launching online mobs on individuals who mistreat kittens, the Human Flesh Search Engine humiliates with stunning speed.

But in cases that stray into politics, such as a hit-and-run involving an official’s progeny, Chinese state censors soon move in, blocking keywords and discouraging further online discussion. The official dragnet can reach smothering proportions — at one time or another, the name of China’s new leader Xi Jinping and the car brand Ferrari were both deemed unacceptable search-words on Weibo.

Internationally, because he appeared to be an abandoned child, Baby 59 has been thought of as a victim of China’s restrictive family-planning policy, which limits some families to a single child. In the name of furthering China’s economic development by limiting its population growth, Chinese officials have committed abuses ranging from forced sterilizations to mandatory abortions on women just a few days from their due dates. Parents who contravene the government’s family-planning regulations can be slapped with fines several times their annual incomes. Blind legal advocate Chen Guangcheng, who fled to the U.S. last year, gained fame for his work on behalf of women compelled by local family-planning officials to undergo sterilizations and late-term abortions in his home province of Shandong in eastern China.

The pressure to have only one child has propelled some Chinese to either abort female fetuses or kill newly delivered daughters. More than 10,000 abandoned babies ended up in a special Beijing ward over the previous decade, according to the Beijing Youth Daily in August 2012. Female children are traditionally less valued in China and as a result of various sex-selection tactics — many illegal — the country’s gender imbalance between boys and girls reached 117 to 100 in 2012, according to state newswire Xinhua. (The normal ratio is around 102–106 boys to 100 girls.) Demographers predict that by 2020 China will be populated by an extra 24 million marriageable men who will be unable to find female partners, a potentially destabilizing scenario in a country whose government is spooked by any harbinger of social unrest.

Baby 59’s story, though, does not appear to be directly connected to the stresses of China’s family-planning strictures. Indeed, young, unmarried women dispose of unwanted babies all over the world. Nor is it clear whether the pipe baby’s mother even abandoned her child. It is a rare son who is discarded in China, and orphanages are crowded with far more girls than boys. Sure enough, staff at the hospital where Baby 59 is recuperating have been inundated with adoption requests, according to local news reports. Meanwhile, local police, who initially posted on Weibo that they were treating the case as attempted murder, appear to have dialed back those charges. The young mother was taken by her parents to an unidentified hospital separate from the one to which her son has been admitted. She, too, needs time to recover.

from:  http://world.time.com/2013/05/29/parents-of-chinas-toilet-pipe-baby-feel-the-wrath-of-the-countrys-netizens/

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using the number/letter grid:

 
1      2      3       4       5       6      7      8      9
A      B     C       D       E       F      G      H      I
J      K      L      M      N       O      P      Q      R
S      T      U      V      W      X      Y      Z

Where:

A = 1              J = 1              S = 1

B = 2              K = 2             T = 2

C = 3              L = 3             U = 3

D = 4              M = 4            V = 4

E = 5              N = 5            W = 5

F = 6              O = 6             X = 6

G = 7              P = 7             Y = 7

H = 8              Q = 8             Z = 8

I = 9               R = 9

 

 

Dong Qi

4657 89            39

 

his path of destiny = 39 = Being a good storyteller.

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The Astro-Databank wiki publishes the huge collection of astrological data collected by Lois Rodden and her cooperators, so that these data can be used for astrological research, for astrological publications and for serious astrological discussion.

The access to the data for these purposes is free of charge. The right to copy and republish birth and event data records is granted to everyone, see Copyright notice.

Astrodienst is committed to preserve the spirit of Lois Rodden and to continue her work. The Astro-Databank has been transformed into an open wiki project and is forming a community of data collectors and maintainers, who expand and maintain this uniquely valuable collection of astrological information.

from:  http://www.astro.com/astro-databank/Main_Page

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using the number/letter grid:

 
1      2      3       4       5       6      7      8      9
A      B     C       D       E       F      G      H      I
J      K      L      M      N       O      P      Q      R
S      T      U      V      W      X      Y      Z

Where:

A = 1              J = 1              S = 1

B = 2              K = 2             T = 2

C = 3              L = 3             U = 3

D = 4              M = 4            V = 4

E = 5              N = 5            W = 5

F = 6              O = 6             X = 6

G = 7              P = 7             Y = 7

H = 8              Q = 8             Z = 8

I = 9               R = 9

 

 

 69    6  5         26

Lois Rodden                    52

3  1  9 44  5     26

 

her soul number and outer personality both = 26 = Celebrities.  Popular people.  People in the news and on television.

Page of Wands Tarot card

her path of destiny = 52 = Astrology.  Astrologer.

Queen of Swords Tarot card

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Abbey Road Studios is most closely associated with the Beatles, who recorded almost all of their albums and singles there between 1962 and 1970. The Beatles named their 1969 album, Abbey Road, after the street where the studio is located (the recording studio would only be named Abbey Road after the Beatles record in 1970). The cover photo for that album was taken by Iain Macmillan outside Abbey Road Studios with the result that the pedestrian zebra crossing outside the studio has become a place of pilgrimage for Beatles fans from all over the world. It has been a long-standing tradition for visitors to pay homage to the band by writing on the wall in front of the building, although it is painted over monthly. In December 2010 the zebra crossing at Abbey Road was given a Grade II listed status.

from:  http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abbey_Road_Studios

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The Beatles’ Abbey Road album was released on September 26th, 1969 according to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abbey_Road_(album)

September 26th, 1969

9 + 26 +1+9+6+9 = 60 = Abbey Road’s life lesson = Move forward. Marching to the beat of a different drummer. The long term. The journey of 1000 miles begins with a single step.

Six of Swords Tarot card

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using the number/letter grid:

 
1      2      3       4       5       6      7      8      9
A      B     C       D       E       F      G      H      I
J      K      L      M      N       O      P      Q      R
S      T      U      V      W      X      Y      Z

Where:

A = 1              J = 1              S = 1

B = 2              K = 2             T = 2

C = 3              L = 3             U = 3

D = 4              M = 4            V = 4

E = 5              N = 5            W = 5

F = 6              O = 6             X = 6

G = 7              P = 7             Y = 7

H = 8              Q = 8             Z = 8

I = 9               R = 9

 

 

Abbey Road
12257 9614            37

 

Abbey Road’s path of destiny = 37 = Singing, musical instruments, guitar riffs.  The Beatles’ Abbey Road album.

King of Cups Tarot card

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May 17, 2013

The man who broke into a home near Hostra University on Long Island early Friday, took hostages and was killed in a shootout with the police that also left a 21-year-old college student dead had an extensive criminal record and was wanted for violating his parole on a robbery conviction, the authorities said Saturday.

The Nassau County police identified the suspect as Dalton Smith, 30 of Hempstead on Long Island. Mr. Smith was identified through fingerprint analysis, the police said.

The authorities said that the suspect had a gun when he forced his was into a home rented by Hofstra University students and took several people hostage. Among them was Andrea Rebello, a junior from Tarrytown, N.Y., and her twin sister, Jessica. Andrea Rebello killed during the invasion. Investigators have not yet said whether it was Mr. Smith or the police who fired the fatal shots.

The violence played out in the middle of the night on an ordinarily quiet residential street, only blocks from Hofstra University, where the victim went to school. Students who were preparing for their last day of exams awoke to the news that one of their own had been killed, and the normally festive atmosphere that comes with the end of the academic year turned terribly sad.

Ms. Rebello, was a junior from Tarrytown, N.Y., and was studying public relations. She shared the home with Jessica, and another young woman, the police said. A young man was also staying at the house at the time.

The suspect knocked on the door of the home around 2:15 a.m., and when one of the residents looked to see who was there, he burst in, according to the police.

He was wearing a ski mask and carrying a pistol, the police said. He held the twin sisters and the young man hostage but let the other woman leave, apparently to go withdraw money from a nearby bank machine, the police said.

That woman called 911, and at 2:29 a.m. she told the police that a gunman was holding hostages at her home.

Within minutes, more than a dozen officers descended on the quiet California Avenue block in Uniondale, N.Y.

“Shortly after our arrival, a shooting took place where the suspect is killed and one of the female victims are killed,” said Deputy Inspector Kenneth Lack of the Nassau County Police Department.

The details of the shooting were under investigation, the police said, but it appeared that the gunman and the police exchanged gunfire. “We are doing a forensic analysis,” said the Nassau chief of detectives, John R. Capece, who said a gun was recovered at the home. “We are going to get to the bottom of what happened.”

Victoria Dehel, who lives four houses away, said she had just gotten home around 2 a.m. when she heard screaming.

“It sounded like a bunch of drunk college students on a Thursday night and then it just got very loud,” Ms. Dehel said. “I was with my boyfriend, and we were just listening,” she added. “And then the screaming just got worse and worse and worse. And then we heard thuds, like five bangs.

“Me and my boyfriend went on the porch to see what was going on. And we saw cops flying down the block.”

She heard what sounded like a woman pleading for her life. “It didn’t sound good at all,” Ms. Dehel said. “I turned to my boyfriend and I said, ‘I think someone just got murdered.’ It was awful.”

Around the same time, she said, she watched as more than a dozen heavily armed police officers approached the house, some holding bulletproof shields in front of them. The police ordered her to go back inside.

Recordings of police communications paint a picture of a chaotic and frightening scene. In one conversation, officers can be heard saying that the suspect was pointing a gun at the head of one of the hostages.

The overnight shooting stunned students at Hofstra, who were just completing their final exams and preparing for the summer break. The university sent a text message to students on Friday alerting them to the shooting, but providing few details.

from:  http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/18/nyregion/hofstra-student-killed-during-home-invasion.html

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using the number/letter grid:

 
1      2      3       4       5       6      7      8      9
A      B     C       D       E       F      G      H      I
J      K      L      M      N       O      P      Q      R
S      T      U      V      W      X      Y      Z

Where:

A = 1              J = 1              S = 1

B = 2              K = 2             T = 2

C = 3              L = 3             U = 3

D = 4              M = 4            V = 4

E = 5              N = 5            W = 5

F = 6              O = 6             X = 6

G = 7              P = 7             Y = 7

H = 8              Q = 8             Z = 8

I = 9               R = 9

 

 

Dalton Smith

413265 14928           45

 

his path of destiny = 45 = Scary.  Violence.  Hardcore.

Five of Cups Tarot card

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June 10, 2011

Josh Hilberling, a 6-foot, 5-inch, 220-pound former football player, died after he plunged 17 stories from his Oklahoma apartment building, an alleged victim of spousal abuse.

Tulsa police say Hilberling, 23, was pushed out of his 25th floor apartment window at the University Club Tower on Tuesday by his wife, Amber Michelle Hilberling, 19, who is being charged with first-degree murder.

“We taught him to never hit a woman, but what we didn’t think to teach him was to get away,” his mother, Jeanne Hilberling, told ABC’s affiliate KTUL. “We just will never forget him. He’s one of a kind.”

“Anybody that knows Josh is going to miss that smile, but no one more than his proud military parents who wanted the world for son,” she said.

The couple had been married only a year, according to his parents, but just last month their son went to Domestic Violence Intervention Services looking for help. It had been hard, they said, for him to admit he was a victim.

They said Josh, who was in the Air Force, didn’t leave because Amber was eight months pregnant with their first child.

“Most of the time you have a homicide similar to this and typically the woman is the victim,” said Officer Jason Willingham, spokesman for the Tulsa Police. “I don’t recall any situation that is similar in recent history, for sure.”

But Amber Hilberling’s lawyer said that she is the victim of domestic violence.

“This is a tragedy for everyone involved and what it wasn’t — was a crime,” Jason Corns told local television station KRMZ.

Police received a call Tuesday afternoon from witnesses who reported a suicide at the apartment tower, according to Willingham. Hilberling had fallen from the 25th floor to an eighth- floor parking garage.

When paramedics arrived, police questioned witnesses and those who knew the couple, determining that Josh had been “pushed out the window, breaking the window and causing his death,” said Willingham. “It was a heck of a fall.”

At first Amber Hilberling was arrested on second-degree murder, but later police changed it to first-degree when they looked at the evidence. “It tipped the scale,” he said.

So far, no charges have been filed, according to Susan Witt of the Tulsa District Attorney’s office.

“Tulsa police are still investigating,” said Witt. “When their investigation is complete, reports will be forwarded to the district attorney’s office for review and a decision about charges.”

Willingham said the couple had a history of domestic violence and there had been protective orders “on both sides.”

Tulsa police said that investigators found a protective order that that Josh Hilberling requested in May because he said he wife hit him on the head with a lamp and he needed 21 stitches.

The order was dismissed when the couple did not show up in court.

“I can say we have seen absolutely no criminal evidence of wrong doing by Mrs. Hilberling,” said Amber Hilberling’s lawyer Corns, who said Josh was the aggressor.

An estimated 835,000 men are physically assaulted by an intimate partner annually in the United States according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in a 2000 National Violence Against Women Survey.

About 37 percent of all domestic abuse victims are men, according to Denver clinical psychologist Jeanne King, who is author of “Abused Men.” She co-founded the education advocacy group, Partners in Prevention.

Battered Men Don’t Report Crimes

“They are silenced because men don’t speak about it,” she said. “It’s two-fold. One is the shame – it’s greater for men than women. There are also less resources available to men…Try to think about where a center is for abused men and you scratch your head.”

Researchers began looking at husband battering cases in the 1970s. One study a Boston University described scenarios where women struck out at their husbands for just talking loudly.

Others said that after being in the house with children who would “get on my nerves” all day long, they got mad and hit their spouses. One woman said she became violent just because her husband was “such a bore.”

“I was trying to wake him up, you know,” she was quoted as saying in the study. ” He was such a rotten lover anyway. So I’d yell at him and bit him to stir him up.”

Other studies have shown that women are more apt to throw things or kick their husbands. Violence is also associated with sexism, lack of self-control and mental illness.

As for Amber Hilberling, she was released from jail Thursday on a $250,000 bond and will appear back in Tulsa County Court on June 15.

She is required to wear an ankle monitor and surrender any passport she owns while the murder investigation continues.

As the Hilberling family plans a private funeral service, they are broken-hearted over their son’s violent death.

“I want people to remember who Josh was, not how he died,” said his mother. “I want them to remember the kind compassionate friend who would do anything for anybody.”

Josh Hilberling’s father told ABC that the day his son died, he had been trying to leave the relationship for good.

“That’s the only thing people need to know is that when you’re trying to leave, it’s the most dangerous time,” said Jeanne Hilberling.

“You bet,” said psychologist King. “Abuse is fundamentally about control and violence will escalate when a person feels they have lost control. There is no greater sense of loss than to see the victim walk out the door.

from:  http://abcnews.go.com/Health/josh-hilberling-pushed-window-dies-alleged-male-spousal/story?id=13813096#.UZfO35Mo5rQ

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using the number/letter grid:

 
1      2      3       4       5       6      7      8      9
A      B     C       D       E       F      G      H      I
J      K      L      M      N       O      P      Q      R
S      T      U      V      W      X      Y      Z

Where:

A = 1              J = 1              S = 1

B = 2              K = 2             T = 2

C = 3              L = 3             U = 3

D = 4              M = 4            V = 4

E = 5              N = 5            W = 5

F = 6              O = 6             X = 6

G = 7              P = 7             Y = 7

H = 8              Q = 8             Z = 8

I = 9               R = 9

 

 

Amber Hilberling

14259 8932593957            81

 

her path of destiny = 81 = Let’s review.  Revisiting the matter.

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PHOTO: Joshua Hilberling

June 10, 2011

Josh Hilberling, a 6-foot, 5-inch, 220-pound former football player, died after he plunged 17 stories from his Oklahoma apartment building, an alleged victim of spousal abuse.

Tulsa police say Hilberling, 23, was pushed out of his 25th floor apartment window at the University Club Tower on Tuesday by his wife, Amber Michelle Hilberling, 19, who is being charged with first-degree murder.

“We taught him to never hit a woman, but what we didn’t think to teach him was to get away,” his mother, Jeanne Hilberling, told ABC’s affiliate KTUL. “We just will never forget him. He’s one of a kind.”

“Anybody that knows Josh is going to miss that smile, but no one more than his proud military parents who wanted the world for son,” she said.

The couple had been married only a year, according to his parents, but just last month their son went to Domestic Violence Intervention Services looking for help. It had been hard, they said, for him to admit he was a victim.

They said Josh, who was in the Air Force, didn’t leave because Amber was eight months pregnant with their first child.

“Most of the time you have a homicide similar to this and typically the woman is the victim,” said Officer Jason Willingham, spokesman for the Tulsa Police. “I don’t recall any situation that is similar in recent history, for sure.”

But Amber Hilberling’s lawyer said that she is the victim of domestic violence.

“This is a tragedy for everyone involved and what it wasn’t — was a crime,” Jason Corns told local television station KRMZ.

Police received a call Tuesday afternoon from witnesses who reported a suicide at the apartment tower, according to Willingham. Hilberling had fallen from the 25th floor to an eighth- floor parking garage.

When paramedics arrived, police questioned witnesses and those who knew the couple, determining that Josh had been “pushed out the window, breaking the window and causing his death,” said Willingham. “It was a heck of a fall.”

At first Amber Hilberling was arrested on second-degree murder, but later police changed it to first-degree when they looked at the evidence. “It tipped the scale,” he said.

So far, no charges have been filed, according to Susan Witt of the Tulsa District Attorney’s office.

“Tulsa police are still investigating,” said Witt. “When their investigation is complete, reports will be forwarded to the district attorney’s office for review and a decision about charges.”

Willingham said the couple had a history of domestic violence and there had been protective orders “on both sides.”

Tulsa police said that investigators found a protective order that that Josh Hilberling requested in May because he said he wife hit him on the head with a lamp and he needed 21 stitches.

The order was dismissed when the couple did not show up in court.

“I can say we have seen absolutely no criminal evidence of wrong doing by Mrs. Hilberling,” said Amber Hilberling’s lawyer Corns, who said Josh was the aggressor.

An estimated 835,000 men are physically assaulted by an intimate partner annually in the United States according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in a 2000 National Violence Against Women Survey.

About 37 percent of all domestic abuse victims are men, according to Denver clinical psychologist Jeanne King, who is author of “Abused Men.” She co-founded the education advocacy group, Partners in Prevention.

Battered Men Don’t Report Crimes

“They are silenced because men don’t speak about it,” she said. “It’s two-fold. One is the shame – it’s greater for men than women. There are also less resources available to men…Try to think about where a center is for abused men and you scratch your head.”

Researchers began looking at husband battering cases in the 1970s. One study a Boston University described scenarios where women struck out at their husbands for just talking loudly.

Others said that after being in the house with children who would “get on my nerves” all day long, they got mad and hit their spouses. One woman said she became violent just because her husband was “such a bore.”

“I was trying to wake him up, you know,” she was quoted as saying in the study. ” He was such a rotten lover anyway. So I’d yell at him and bit him to stir him up.”

Other studies have shown that women are more apt to throw things or kick their husbands. Violence is also associated with sexism, lack of self-control and mental illness.

As for Amber Hilberling, she was released from jail Thursday on a $250,000 bond and will appear back in Tulsa County Court on June 15.

She is required to wear an ankle monitor and surrender any passport she owns while the murder investigation continues.

As the Hilberling family plans a private funeral service, they are broken-hearted over their son’s violent death.

“I want people to remember who Josh was, not how he died,” said his mother. “I want them to remember the kind compassionate friend who would do anything for anybody.”

Josh Hilberling’s father told ABC that the day his son died, he had been trying to leave the relationship for good.

“That’s the only thing people need to know is that when you’re trying to leave, it’s the most dangerous time,” said Jeanne Hilberling.

“You bet,” said psychologist King. “Abuse is fundamentally about control and violence will escalate when a person feels they have lost control. There is no greater sense of loss than to see the victim walk out the door.

from:  http://abcnews.go.com/Health/josh-hilberling-pushed-window-dies-alleged-male-spousal/story?id=13813096#.UZfO35Mo5rQ

video at:  http://www.nbcnews.com/id/3032600/#/51923589

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using the number/letter grid:

 
1      2      3       4       5       6      7      8      9
A      B     C       D       E       F      G      H      I
J      K      L      M      N       O      P      Q      R
S      T      U      V      W      X      Y      Z

Where:

A = 1              J = 1              S = 1

B = 2              K = 2             T = 2

C = 3              L = 3             U = 3

D = 4              M = 4            V = 4

E = 5              N = 5            W = 5

F = 6              O = 6             X = 6

G = 7              P = 7             Y = 7

H = 8              Q = 8             Z = 8

I = 9               R = 9

 

 

Joshua Hilberling

161831 8932593957              80

 

his path of destiny = 80 Flattened. Getting dropped. Stone cold. Dealing with the aftermath. Zero signal. I am numb.

80

 

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